As you pointed out in your post, prior to the common acceptance of the automatic thermostatic anti-scald valves manually adjusted tempering valves were in widespread use, and they are still readily available and commonly used.
The code requires that in instances where the water heater is also used for space heating you are required to install a master mixing valve to temper the domestic hot water to not more than 140degF. (International Residential code 2802.2)
The physical location of a WHOLE HOUSE TEMPERING VALVE or a WHOLE HOUSE THERMOSTATIC MIXING VALVE must be down stream of the point where the space heating line attaches to the water heater and should be before the first branch serving a hot water faucett.
It may be installed at any convenient location, but it must be open and readily accessible for service or adjustment.
I have attached an illustration of what you are looking for.
I would begin at the water heater hot water discharge port and examine the lines downstream from that point.
Some people erroneously install them only at the tub/shower so you may also want to look for a service access to the tub/shower mixer and see if the valve is located in there.
When these regulations first came out some people made there own tempering valves by placing a globe valve with a checkvalve between the hot and cold water lines, so look for any cross connections between hot and cold.
